High School Showers
From LoveToKnow Teens
For some students, nothing is worse than taking high school showers after gym. If the idea of taking a shower after gym class sends shivers up your spine, read on to get some ideas on how to deal with this all-too-common problem!
High School Showers: A Necessary Evil
People who perspire a lot, especially after sports activities, need to take a shower. The reason for this is simple: bacteria begin growing in a warm and moist environment. As bacteria begin to multiply, they cause an unpleasant odor. The best way to stop the growth of bacteria, and put an end to the unpleasant odor, is to take a shower or bath.
Some students may think that throwing on scented powder or using more deodorant will cover up these odors, but the world has yet to invent a product that can head off the problem entirely. If you want to get completely rid of the odor, taking a shower and scrubbing yourself thoroughly with soap is the only way.
The Truth About Showers
Everyone who has ever attended high school has had to deal with the high school shower problem. Whether you are a girl or a boy, everyone feels the same. It is normal to feel embarrassed. There is the perception that everyone is checking each other out to see who has the most perfect body or is best endowed. While there is some truth to that thought, since most teens like to compare themselves with their peers, for the most part everyone is trying to get to the showers, finish the chore and get out as quickly as possible. No one really has the time to size anyone up and make value judgments.
How to Avoid Embarrassment
Nothing will call attention to you like avoiding the showers all of the time. You'll actually give your peers something to talk about if you never hit the showers. How do you deal with the situation without dying of embarrassment? There are a few things you can do to avoid stressing in the locker room:
- Ask your coach if you can hit the showers a few minutes early. While not all coaches will do this, it is worth discussing it with them. Most athletes are acutely aware of this particular problem, and may have struggled with it themselves.
- Buy a decent sized towel and don't rely on the skimpy towels your gym provides. While not every school provides towels, for those that do… why rely on a ridiculously small towel to hide under? Buy one or two towels that are beach sized. They make great cover ups and with a little experience, you can even get dressed with one on!
- Girls can buy terry towel wraps that attach with Velcro so you don't have to worry about them falling off. They come in a variety of sizes and colors and are made to fit any figure. If modesty is a major concern, these little numbers can help you avoid feeling naked in front of the crowd.
- Nothing feels more awkward in a shower than looking at a bunch of naked bodies around you. If you are unfortunate enough to have a common shower with no dividers or curtains, get the corner spot and face the wall as much as possible. Avoiding eye contact usually makes this more bearable.
- Buy a wash product that does several things so you don't have to carry a bunch of bottles or bend over in the shower. There are several products on the market that can be used both as a shower gel and shampoo for guys and girls. Check out the soap aisle in your favorite retail store or drug store and see what's available in your area.
Finally, don't let the idea of the showers ruin your entire day. As much as you may dread taking a shower, the thought of it is much worse than it actually is. Some students even start to enjoy taking them because hot showers make them more relaxed and ready to face the rest of the day. After you do it a few times, the embarrassment of it should start to go away and you'll no longer suffer from those feelings of self-consciousness.
Comments
You really will adjust to the nudity pretty quickly. We had to take showers from 6th grade until end of high school, most kids were 11 or 12 in 6th grade. And there was no hiding, they were all the column type with 4 showerheads each so 4 guys were facing center showering. It is just a fact there will be various stages of development and I was pre-puberty in 6th grade, but was never made fun of, even by people who bullied me outside of the locker room. Nudity is less of a deal then people in the US make it out to be. Go to any other country, particularly South America or Europe, and sex-segregated nudity is just a non-issue.
-- Contributed by: spikebaltarI'm a guy from the U.K. and when I was at my secondary school (aged 11-16) between 1983-1988, it was compulsory/mandatory to shower nude after P.E. lessons with the other boys. I will admit being a little self conscious for the first 2 or 3 times because of my really skinny body but I soon got used to it. By the time I was in what is now year 9, at 13 and going through those early puberty years I actually looked forward to the showers afterwards because I liked seeing how the other guys were developing as I was a bit of a late bloomer myself. Most of the time it was nice, especially after a cross country session at school, to strip-off and get my dirty and sweaty body showered.:) I think that by showering nude I gained self confidence in my body because despite being a really skinny teen, none of the other boys made comments and just got on with showering.
-- Contributed by: David BandGreat advice!
I too had mandatory communal showers after gym class in my high school. Like it said at the end of the article, it's true, after a few days it no longer seems like a big deal to shower with your female classmates and friends. And once you adjust to the nudity issue, which happens way faster than you think it will, you then can no longer imagine not showering. And no ones staring at you anyway, their just getting clean and carry on conversations about what boys they like and stuff like that.
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