School Dress Codes
From LoveToKnow Teens
School dress codes can really put a damper on your individuality. However, there are some things you can do to still make your true self shine through.
The Purpose of School Dress Codes
No, it's not an evil ploy by school officials against teens. It's because many schools find that having dress codes can help you in your academic success. Knowing what is appropriate and inappropriate clothing will keep you from getting into trouble, which could keep you away from your classes. Another reason is if everyone follows the guidelines, students are not as distracted by someone's outfit. Without dress codes, some students can choose to come to school in outfits that cause either controversy or reveals too much skin.
The Reasons for Uniforms
Schools attempt to keep students on the same level as far as clothing goes so that people do not have to worry about how they look. Administrators feel this helps students do well academically and socially because it eliminates one of the reasons why many students argue with each other and form cliques. If you have ever made fun of someone because of the shirt, pants or shoes he or she wears, then you know the reason why some schools require uniforms.
What about Your Individuality?
School dress codes can keep you from showing off what you believe in and expressing your true self. Even though you may not be able to wear anything you want, you may be able to find some clothing you can get by with wearing. Here are some tips to find loopholes in the dress code policy.
- Get a copy of the policy
You can probably acquire it from the main office. You can also find this in your student handbook if this is something your school provides in the beginning of the year.
- Read it carefully
Read it word for word and do not skip any section. You need to know exactly what is appropriate and inappropriate.
- Make lists
Make two lists of all of the things the policy says you can and cannot wear.
- Start thinking
Look over the list of things you can't wear and start thinking about clothing that doesn't fall into that list. The items you come up with may not be under the acceptable clothing list because administrators did not think of it.
- Ask before you buy
You will not be happy if you go out to buy clothing that shows off who you truly are and find out you can't wear it. Go to your main office and ask to make an appointment with the principal or vice principal. When you have your meeting, bring pictures of what you would like to purchase and ask if it is acceptable.
- Go shopping
When you have the green light, hit the stores and shop.
Uniforms: Your Individuality
Showing off your individuality with uniforms can become a bit tricky. You can't go out and purchase a different shirt, pants, skirt or shoes. However, there may be a way for you to break free from the monotony of your outfit.
- Accessories
Ask your principal if any accessories are not allowed.
- Altering
Without going back to the Fresh Prince days of turning your uniform jacket inside out, you can possibly find other ways to make yourself stand out from the rest. Maybe wearing different socks (if allowed) with designs or messages on them may be an option.
- Waiting it out
You might have to just hang in there and then change as soon as the bell rings. School is only a few hours each day and afterwards you can wear what you feel comfortable in, as long as your parents allow it.
Conclusion
Administrators only want to protect you and help you succeed academically. They feel that dress codes are one of the most effective ways in doing this. Don't waste all of your energy in fighting it; accept it and realize that this time in your life is only temporary. You have many years ahead of you to express the person you truly have become.
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