Teen Girls
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Teen girls are at an exciting time in their lives. They're growing physically, mentally, and emotionally, developing the identities, values, and beliefs that will carry them into their adult lives. It can also be a confusing time, as they try to come to terms with developments in their bodies and changing relationships.
Relationships
Parents
As teen girls work to forge their own identities, they begin to pull away from their families and rely more on friends for support. This can lead to problems with parents as teens rebel against authority and push for more independence. While it's natural to want more freedom as a teenager, you must recognize that your parents have the final say in decisions concerning your well-being. If you have a concern, try talking it out with your parents in a calm and rational manner. It's much better to engage in a reasonable debate about why your curfew should be later than 11 p.m. than it is to come home at midnight and get grounded.
Friends
Teens often define themselves by the type of friends they have, the activities in which they participate, and the clothes they wear. Teens sometimes find themselves drifting apart from friends they've had for years, and joining new groups. This is natural, although teens should take care not to leave old friends behind in a cruel manner. Teen girls should also make sure any new friendships are positive ones, and that new groups of friends aren't engaging in destructive or mean-spirited behaviors.
Romance
A part of teen development is becoming interested in romantic relationships. While young love can be exciting, it also brings potential problems. It can be easy to become too immersed in a relationship, neglecting school, friends, and family in favor of your new love. There may be increased pressure to have sex. The end of a relationship can be highly emotional and painful. These potential problems can be overcome by maintaining a healthy balance in any relationship, staying true to your morals, keeping your feelings in perspective, and talking to friends and trusted adults if you have problems.
Puberty
In girls, puberty consists of the following changes:- Breast development
- Growth of pubic hair
- Changes in body shape, including widening hips
- Onset of menstruation
- Increased body odor
- Increased production of skin oils, often causing acne
Some girls actually experience puberty during the preteen years, while others are 14 or 15 before they get their first period. Every girl is unique, and there is no "right" timeline for a teen body to develop.
Body Image
With so many changes occurring, teen girls may feel uncomfortable with their new bodies. Media images can also negatively influence a teen girl's body image. Ultra-thin celebrities and airbrushed models create an impossible ideal.
Teen girls can take control of their own body image and learn to appreciate the advantages of growing up. They should learn to not compare themselves to others and to ignore the negative media images. They may also take small steps to improve their appearance, like using an acne medication or playing sports to get more exercise and keep off extra pounds. Sometimes, feeling more secure is a matter of finding the right clothing to highlight a developing body.
Extreme feelings of low self-worth can lead to depression, self-destructive behavior and eating disorders. Talk to a trusted adult or seek counseling if you persistently feel sad, you're engaging in damaging behaviors like throwing up after each meal, or you're having thoughts of death and suicide. The teen years should be a positive time; you don't have to face these problems alone.
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Comments
Hi Help Please,
If he has a girlfriend, you have to drop him. You may be interested in him now because he is unavailable, that is common. However, you can't break up his current relationship just to see. Give the guy a break and move on to someone else.
-- Contributed by: Debbie Vasenokay,in the begining of the school year there was this boy that liked me.He was super nice to me and he asked me out and i said no cause i didnt like him.Now i like him cause i dont know all of a sudden i like him.And he has a girlfriend but he still acts like he likes me.I dont know if he likes me or not what should i do?
-- Contributed by: help pleaseHi Stacey,
There are many flirty things you can do to let him know you are interested such as smiling and striking up more conversation with him. For more ideas, check out these articles:
-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy
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