Will He Ever Call?

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Are you wondering if that cute guy you met is ever going to pick up the phone and call you? Well, so was this reader and let's learn what the Teen Team has to say.

Waiting for the Call

Will He Ever Call Me

Reader Question

I just returned from camp where I met a counselor named is Shotty. He was so awesome and I totally liked him, and he told me that he also liked me. Every time that he would look at me I would just smile, I couldn't help it… he just made me happy. My friend Randee and I got in a little fight so I was really down that day, but when I looked at Shotty and all he did was ask me what was wrong and I just felt so much better. Anyways… I really, really like him, so the last day there I gave him my number and I said that he should call me some time. But he hasn't called me yet, and I don't know why.

~~I Miss You

Advice from Melissa

Hi,

Sometimes, boys have every intention of calling you when they say they are going to. And then they get dorky and either forget, start hanging around their friends, and just basically flake out. If you don't have a way to reach out to him (IM or Facebook) let it go. Just consider it one of the many flirtations and fun experiences with summertime that you will have.

Next time, instead of giving the boy your number to call, maybe you should get his phone number or his screen name and that way you can be in charge -- instead of leaving it in someone else's hands!

~~Melissa

Advice from Katie

WELL, let me just get out my crystal ball and gaze into the soul of the aforementioned Shotty and unscramble the deepest inner workings of his twisted mind... Okay, I have divined a list of possible reasons that Shotty hasn't called:

  1. He was kidnapped by pirates. There is no cell phone reception in Davy Jones' locker.
  2. He was abducted by aliens. No reception on Venus either.
  3. AMNESIA
  4. He's busy fending off a robot apocalypse by rejecting all modern technology.
  5. He's a tool.

I don't know. There are a million reasons. Maybe you misinterpreted some signs here and there, and (i hate this book, by the way) he's just not that into you. If he was your counselor, maybe he's too old for you (legally, i mean. I am sure you are full of maturity). Maybe he's married with two kids. Maybe he's got the herp (in which case, you dodged a bullet). Either way, he's obviously a loser.

I'd go with the robot apocalypse thing, though. Therefore, you should wish him luck. Robots are vicious. They have LASERS in their EYES.

~~Katie



 


Comments

So there's this guy that I met at the beach oe time with my family. Anyways when we had to leave, he wanted my number. We've kept in touch for 3 months, in a way. There was a missions trip he had to go on for 8 weeks where he couldnt accept any texts. During that time, I just waited. Wondering if he would even send a text when he got back. He did. And it made me notice that he cares about me.Now he's gone to Europe for 3 weeks, and he gets no service over there unless he wants to pay alot of money. He cared enough to text the first time, but will he care at all when he gets back and school starts?

-- Contributed by: Will he care

hi, i am 16 yrs old...iam in high school! and i used to like this guys and almost every1 in school knew abt it and so did he. i even told him that i liked him because he was also my friend. now i moved schools and i his good friend is my boyfriend. i met him anfter me and his friend strted dating and he seemed to be pretty cool about it. but now he doesnt call me or mail me...i IM'd him and he didnt reply... i still have a soft spot for him but its just a soft spot! i donno what to do??coz i still want us to be friends and talk!

-- Contributed by: will he ever keep in touch?

i began to talk to a boy the lastweek of school even tho i liked him all year well the last week of school it was offical we bgan to date i gave him my number he only called once and now its the summer cant really get in touch with him so

-- Contributed by: kaely
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