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-- Contributed by: mister

Hi Charles990, I'm not sure how to tell someone that you have never seen that you love them unless there is some kind of an existing relationship - like a pen pal. If you want to start a relationship there has to be some kind of communication - start with letters, phone calls, text messages so that they know you are interested in them. Make the first move so they know you care.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

I would like to know how to tell a person I have never seen how much I love him or and that I would like to go into a relationship with them.

-- Contributed by: charles990

Hi Joe, There are two things that need to be addressed. First, you have to listen to your girlfriend and not hurt her. Second, if you are rushing things, that could be the problem. Foreplay is a necessary part of a sexual relationship - especially for the girl. Finally, don't forget to use protection!

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

I have a huge penis and my girlfriend doesn't like when I try to get real deep, but to me that is the best feeling. What should I do?

-- Contributed by: Joe

Hi Megan and Alex, If you have a question for Annie, please send her an email at annie@annifox.com.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

My probelm is kinda like Lynn's except vise-versa. I like a girl and she likes me.

-- Contributed by: Alex

Hi Annie. I like this boy but I've asked him out before but he said it will ruin our friendship. What Should I do?

-- Contributed by: megan

Hi Lynn, Sounds like you don't want to wait for him to make the first move. If you absolutely can't wait then you'll have to make the first move. You could ask him to do something after church (perhaps the movies, a local coffee shop, a local teen hangout?). You could also get your friends together and try to go on a group date and ask him along. If you really want to see him, you'll have to make time to see him outside of church.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

I'm almost a teenager and I have a dilemma. There is a guy. (of course, you knew I was going to say that.) He's really nice, funny, kinda cute, but I like him mostly for his personality. He'd be a really good match for me, I know it. He likes me, I can tell. (You: How do you know? Me:He stares at me every time I get near him when he thinks I'm not looking.) So anyway, we like each other, but neither of us will admit it. Also, he tries to show off around me, but I like him when he's just himself. And this not official relationship is really hard because I'm probably going to have to spill that I like like him and I'm really shy! And also, we go to the same school but we never get the chance to hang out! The only place we get to hang is church, Help! Just gimme tips! PLEASE!

-- Contributed by: Lynn

Kara,

Wait it out. If you like them both, continue the friendships and see who responds with the most enthusiasm. It will also give you time to get to know both and make some decisions.

-- Contributed by: Debbie Vasen

I like two boys. One is in a grade higher and the other is in my grade. The one in the grade above me is so cute. The one in my grade is always flirting with me, putting his arm around me, and we just talk, he is always asking questions about me and he is really nice. What do I do and school is over in less than a week!!!! Help Me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

-- Contributed by: kara

I don't like to give out my age, I am not exactly a teen yet, but almost. You can literally read my mind! I am nervous to talk to him at school. I am not actually going on a date, but we TRY to hang out. I have a lot of guy friends, but it is awesome to have a boyfriend.

-- Contributed by: Mackenzie

I asked a guy out over text and he said yes! It ended up he had a crush on me! I was so excited, but the truth is, he isn't like the CUTEST boy in the world (he is still cute), but the reason I asked him out was because he is probably the nicest boy you will ever meet in your life. I actually think I may be in love with him. I mean, he has everything a girl should ever dream of.

-- Contributed by: Mackenzie

Hi What Can I Do, Knowing how old you are would be helpful, but assuming you are old enough to date, here goes. It isn't unusual to get nervous around guys, everyone does when they first start dating. Don't worry about this! Once you get to know them, you'll see they're pretty likeable! Try to join a few clubs and cultivate a few guys as friends. Getting to know them as friends first, whether you want to date them or not, will help you learn to realax around them. As for rejection, that is just a part of life that happens to everyone as well. It sucks, but you'll have to face it one way or another in your life. Luckily, the odds of every single guy rejecting you is about as high as winning the lottery. Meaning: the odds are in your favor, girl! Now get out there and make some guy-friends!

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

Hi Who Can Help Me, Sounds like you have a real problem if you don't even know the girl's name! I think the only way you'll get this girl's phone number is to either 1) get the courage to walk right up to her and ask her (most girls are amazed and impressed if you do this), or 2) find a friend-of-a-friend (also known as a dating ambassador) to find out if she likes you and would like to go out with you. I don't see any other way to get her number.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

Hi Don't Know What to Do, There are certain risks that you'll have to assume if you want the relationship to go further. Has he given you any clues that he thinks of you as more than a friend? This could help you make the decision to make the leap and tell him how you feel. Perhaps you could take it slow and try to do more things together, like going to the movies or spending time and your house watching television. Maybe if you spend more quality time together you could get up the courage to tell him how you really feel (and maybe the time spent together will get HIM to tell YOU how he feels!).

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

I'm a shy girl and everytime a guy comes around I get nervous. Plus I'm afraid to ask a guy out because of my fear of rejection. What is the best solution for this?

-- Contributed by: what can I do

I like a girl but I don't even know her name, I'm too afraid to talk to her and ask for her number. What can I do to get her number and ask her out in a way that it won't embarrass me?

-- Contributed by: who can help me

There is this guy I have known forever and now I like him, but I'm afraid I'll ruin our relationship by telling him how I feel. What do I do?

-- Contributed by: dont know what to do

Hi Mary, It is too bad the guy you liked is treating you this way. Obviously he is being a jerk. I guess he can't accept the idea of a girl asking him out. You are left with two choices- either ignore him like he is doing to you and move on, or try to talk to him about this. If you had a friendship before this, let him know you'd still like to be friends- but do this in private, not in front of his friends. Hang in there- there are plenty of nicer fish in the sea.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

I like this guy and I think he's really nice. I asked him out, and he said I don't know.. so he told all of his friends about it.. and now it's really embarrassing to be around him. We don't ever talk anymore.. what should I do?

-- Contributed by: mary

I know this girl that I like. She seems to like me too, but I don't know if I should ask her out or not because there is this other girl I like, but I didn't think she liked me(mainly because she seemed to have an attitude towards me.) but today when some kid tried to fight me, she hit him and told him to leave me alone. I do not know what to do. Please help!!!!!!

-- Contributed by: Jeremiah

Hi Paige, visit the Ask the Teen Team page to see their answer to your question!

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

Hi Anne, Check out the Ask the Teen Team page to see their answer to your question!

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

hey i know this relly cute guy that i've known for 2 years and i hang out with him everyday ater school!! what should i do? i really like hime more like love him and his personality he's nice respectful about himself and others very trust worhty and he is always thinking of others and not himself! we madeouy once but we said there was no connection so what should i do? It we'll be a good relatoinship but i'm moving.

-- Contributed by: paige

I really like this guy who I've known for 8 years now. In my face he's even said I was in his top five girls. I'm the third, according to him. I really trust him, he's one of my best friends. I have been questioning myself on whether or not I should ask him, because I really do know what love is, and I'm in love with one of my best friends who is 2 years older than me. He knows and he appreciates it, but I know I'll never have a chance with him, ever. SO I've pretty much given up all hope. I actually do want to be with the first guy, my age, but I don't know what I should say or do. or if it's even worth it to ask him since he likes two other girls. I'm also scared of getting rejected, please help me! Thanks.

-- Contributed by: Anne

Hi Diana,

Do you have any friends that know this guy? Perhaps they could find out if he is interested in you before you take the plunge. Otherwise, you need to find a reason to talk with him before you ask him for a date cold turkey. Do you share a class, club or sport with him? Find some common ground so you have a reason to strike up a conversation with him. (Ask about an assignment or group activity even if you already know the answer). After you get to know him better he may even ask you out first!

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

Hi Tommy,

It always helps to get to know someone first before you ask them out. If you only see the girl you like in church, perhaps there are some church groups or meetings that you both attend? It will give you something in common to talk to her about, such as youth group plans, bible study, that day's sermon, etc. Once you get to know her a little better, asking her out will be much easier.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

i like this guy who's a year older than me, he knows who i am, but doesn't know much about me. i know everything about him!! i want to ask him out but, whenever i get close to him i get nervous, and sometimes i feel sick. what can i do to get the confidence to ask him out?

-- Contributed by: diana

hi my name is tommy and i like dis girl and she's 2 years older than me. She's really cute and i really like so i want to ask her out but i get chickened out and i always think dat she might say no and i cant risk dat because i only meet her in church. i need some tips plz^^

-- Contributed by: tommy

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-- Contributed by: teinesamoa
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