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Hi Angie, I would start by talking to the school psychologist where you son attends school. He or she could help you determine the proper course of action. Most school employees will continue to work for a while after school lets out- don't let that deter you in contacting the school psychologist. Some sort of counseling is probably in order right away. Even though you are on disability and probably Medicare (not Medicaid), you should have some options in finding care for your son. Perhaps your son has coverage under Medicaid? Covered counseling is usually short-term counseling. Once you have found a counseling center they should be able to help you figure out what you can afford and what programs are available to you. I think you probably have some unexplored options; you just need to start with contacting the school psychologist, and if they aren't available, look in the phone book for a local counseling center (many hospitals have them). Don't wait until the fall to tackle this problem.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

I am concerned and worried about my 11 year-old son and his behavior. I want to help him but I have no money. I am a single mother and have Social Security Disability and live on a very fixed income, as well as having Medicaid. This passed year my son has allowed his grades to drop (out of 5 classes he has 4 F's), he will not do any thing you ask him to without a fight or a yelling match, his self-esteem has depleted rapidly , he says "I do not want to be smart anymore!" He is fighting in school, he is very defiant, has an I hate you attitude as well as more. I feel as though he has all but given up. I would appreciate any help you are willing to give. Sincerely, Angie

-- Contributed by: Angie

Hi Carin, Could you tell me the state you live in? I could research some resources for you. Sometimes the best thing for children in this situation is to remove the outside influences- either by enrolling them in a private school or perhaps a boot-camp type environment. Boot camps aren't usually long term though- they are more like an intervention type program for kids that need help immediately in order to turn their lives around.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

We took in our niece 3 years ago. She has consistently had lying, sneaking,issues. She doesn't follow the rules EVER. Punishment, grounding, talking to - nothing works. She has had counseling for over 1.5 years - hasn't made a difference. Her parents are both drug addicts and although she hasn't done that yet- we feel that is the direction she is headed. We need help desperately.

-- Contributed by: Carin Anderson

Hi Cynthia, Here are two links to websites that may be able to help you find funding and a boot camp/alternative education for your son. I used to live in Columbus, and I'm aware that there aren't many alternatives for you in Ohio. Try Adriel, and Boot Camps- Ohio resources. I hope this helps you find something suitable for your son.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

My son is 13. He'll turn 14 in May. He is currently not in school. He has been suspended from the Delaware School system for writing a "hit" list letter. He has returned to me and the school board of Ohio will not allow him to register. He just sit home everyday. He needs to go to school. Please help me find a State funded Boot camp. So that he'll receive some education this year. Sincerely, Cynthia

-- Contributed by: Cynthia
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