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Hi So...Ed. Sorry your crush turned out to be such a cad. I'm sure you can do much better than some schlep that acts like a three-year-old. A real guy would treat you with respect and consideration, even if he didn't want to date you, which is what every girl deserves. Chalk this up to experience, and move on. By the way, if the person who told you that you were ugly was a friend, they really aren't your friend. Anyone who would repeat that, even if it were true, is a real jerk.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

Hi Person, Why don't you find some ways to hang out with your crush? Ask her to a school event, so it wouldn't be like a date-date, since you'd have other friends around. Group "dates" are a good idea for teens your age- do you have other friends that like to bowl or go to the movies? Think of ways that you could spend time together, but in a casual, friendly environment. Good luck!

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

I just got rejected today at school by a guy I have been crushing on for months!:( And to make it worse he didn"t even tell me that he didn"t like me back he told one of the people on our bus who told me AND he said i was UGLY!!!!!!!!! (isnt true) I am so mad and hurt

-- Contributed by: so...ed

i like this girl, anx we have all lur academic classes together... we both have crushes idk who she likes but i like her... we talk a lot and we both think that 13 or 12 is too young to go out but we both havr crushes.. how do i tell her i like her but not go any farther u no wat mean

-- Contributed by: person

Hi Nora,

It does seem like he likes you from what you he was doing during summer school. The best thing to do in this situation is go to school and see if you two have the same connection. If so, it probably means that he does like you and you should see about hanging out outside of school. You can simply ask if he would like to go see a movie. Good luck!

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

hi,this summer i had summr skool and this one guy i sorta knew during the year sat in front of me the last three weeks of it. i started crushing on him and eventually started looking 4ward to go to summr skool 2 see him. he's a skateboarder (which i luv since i sorta do to but he doesnt want me to) and seems smart and funny and he has a totally great smile. problm is, i cant tell if he liked me or not. he was always talking 2 ppl who sat nxt to him &wen we played a game during class the day b4 last, this OTHER guy who sorta crushin on me, kept askin 4 my numbr. well the guy i crushed on looked at me &worded sumthin 2me tht i truly bellieve. the nxt day the guy asked again &again the guy i crushed on told me 2say no. i dont know if he was tryin 2 help out or wat. the part about him not actually wantin me to board is the little bump i hate. but othrwise he seems pretty nice to me. summr skool has long been done and skool starts in a week! i cant tell if he crushed on me too, or if i should jst admire from the side.

-- Contributed by: nmkj

Hi Jasmine,

He may be telling people he doesn't go out because he hasn't found the right girl to go out with. That right girl could be you. If you think he is interested in you, talk to him and get to know him better. The more you talk, the more comfortable you both will feel hanging out and then it could end up as something more. Good luck to you!

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

heyy... i think these advice and tips are really helpful. but.. what happens when you like someone, and you are unsure if they like you back. he might avoid you, but you always see the way he looks at you from a distance. what happens there. oh and here's another problem... there's no chance that he would date anyone. because your older brother, who's friends with him. said that he said he doesn't go out... i am totally screwed in this situation because i really like this guy. and he could possibly like me back. how can i be so sure

-- Contributed by: Jasmine

Glad you found what you needed!

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

This was really good, especially since im going through this right now. It was helpful Thanx

-- Contributed by: Illrianna

This is very good help, ya dig?

-- Contributed by: lakesha

Hi Mellie, It is great that you've found someone you adore, but if he really is your best friend, you'll have to leave him alone while he is dating someone else. Wait until he is single again before you make a move, otherwise, you may end up getting rejected.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

I think I'm falling for my best friend, but he has a girlfriend and I think his kinda noticing that I have feelings for him. My best friend is so sweet, caring, and he has everything I want in a guy, he always teases me saying I'm in love with him. Sorry, it's really confusing. I've already tried talking to an adult, but I still don't get my feelings.

-- Contributed by: Mellie

Hi Enter your name here, Try saying "hi" - someone has to make the first move, and it sounds like he is too shy as well. Good luck!

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

Hi Anonymous, Try sitting with her on the bus or at least sitting near to her so you can talk. Try being friends with her first- it will pay off when you're old enough to date. Hang in there!

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

I really like this guy and the problem is that I'm shy and I don't know if he likes but he does stare at me a lot any time he sees me what should I do?

-- Contributed by: Enter your name here

Hi heres my problem I like this one girl but first of all I can't date until I'm sixteen and I'm only fourteen. Secondly She's in a class below me. And thirdly I don't know her very well. Also she rides my bus to school. What should I do.

-- Contributed by: anonymous

Thanks a bunches! <3<3<3

-- Contributed by: Cryss

Hi Cryss, You have two options here - either ask him out to do something or wait for him to ask you. Why not ask him to go to the movies with you, or to hang out somewhere local where all your friends are. Make it a group "date," and maybe his mom will let him go with you. I can't see his mom saying "no" if she is best friends with your mom.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

Here's my situation: I like my guy-friend. He's 15, I'm 13 and our moms are best friends. We've known each other since birth! We live 45 minutes away from each other. I have his number, we are both Christians and his mom is kinda strict. I want to go out with him, but I don't know if he can date. I don't want to ruin the relationship if he doesn't like me! What do I do?

-- Contributed by: Cryss

Hi Tay, Guys really don't like playing games or being part of an ongoing drama. It sounds like in the past he may have been interested in you, but you kept changing the rules and deleting your myspace account before he could reply. It is no wonder that at some point he said he would rather talk to you in person. If you haven't seen him in over a year, perhaps you should move on to someone else or at the very least talk to him in person (if he isn't dating someone else now).

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

There's something about me that gets extremely jealous if I find out my crush likes a popular girl. Since I'm not popular, I feel no guys (except for lowlife freaks) will like me. The guy I like is popular and I found out he likes this pretty cheerleader. It hurts because I don't think I'm pretty. Now I text my crush and stuff, but it feels like I'm the one that's actually trying. When I said, "I like you" and stuff he said "Cool" and never said anything really involved back. He tried adding me on myspace after I sent him the truth message. I got nervous and deleted my account, worried he would make fun of it. I used my friend's myspace and wrote him 5 messages explaining it was me. He never replied and I noticed he got on those days. When I talk to him about my feelings he waits until I say something neutral to reply. I asked him who he liked and he replied, "No one. I'd rather ask you out in person." It didn't really make any sense. I talked to my sister who hung out with him once a year ago. She said after bringing me up as her sister he immediately said, "She's a ..." about me. I also heard he thought I was "cute" at the time. I dyed my hair brown and I think he only likes blondes. I haven't seen him in a year and he only got to see one updated picture of me on myspace. He texted me asking to see more. I honestly think he is trying to be as nice as he can.

-- Contributed by: Tay

Hi Amanda, Two things may have happened- he may be mad about something you said, or he simply wasn't interested in pursuing the relationship. You have two options - apologize for whatever you said, or just let it go. Perhaps time will heal all wounds.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

Well I have a weird story, my friend and I wanted to get to know this guy better, she liked him at the time, I didn't, so we started IMing him on a fake AIM account. Then after she left, I kept doing it, for a few weeks, and began to develop feelings for him. He really wanted to know who it was, so I told him it was me, and now we haven't talked ever since. He said that he wouldn't get mad, but I did say some things that may have made him mad. What do I do?

-- Contributed by: amanda

Hi Favora, Sounds like you have a crush on this guy, but you think he isn't interested in you, especially in light of the way he looks at other girls. Probably the only way to turn this around in your favor is to clue him in. Maybe ask him to do some things with you outside of youth group, or if you're really confident, just tell him you like him. Don't wait and let some other girl snatch him up if you're really into him - make a move.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

There is a guy in my youth group who is a year younger than me. I think that I like him - at least, I think of him all the time. He's under-confident and he sometimes says he wishes girls would like him, but I doubt he'd like me, because I am not pretty or cool or anything. And I've seen him looking at girls like that. We do have awkward moments, but I wonder if that might just be because of me, not because of both of us. I know we like each other as friends, but that might just be it. I don't think I'm going to tell him anything unless I feel more confident. If we keep this up for a year without it dying, the most I'll probably do is ask him to come with me to my graduation dance, which is sort of what you lot call a prom.

-- Contributed by: Favora

Hi. Let me start off with say that I am going to the tenth grade and there is this guy that I know and we are in the same grade and I have liked him ever since the eighth grade and I like him a lot and I think that he likes me because everytime we pass eachother in the hall way he would look at me and we would have this akward moment. I really do like him and I would tell him that but we are in totally in different social classes, like he's the Football player and I'm the Student Council girl. Some other reasons why I think that he like me is that when we talk to each other he would talk to me with a smile in his mouth and kind of look somewhere else to hie the smile, and plus he hasn't had a girlfriend for three years so I am wondering if it is true or am I looking for reasons to make my self undissapointed.

-- Contributed by: Jasmine

Hi, I have this really big crush on this guy at school I can't stop thanking bought him and I want him so bad. I just don't know what to do bought this whole thang??

-- Contributed by: Lauren

okay, well i have a weird story... my friend and i wanted to get to know this guy better, she liked him at the time, i didnt, so we started IMing him on a fake AIM account. then after she left, i kept doing it, for a few weeks, and began to develop feelings for him. he really wanted to know who it was, so i told him it was me, and now we havent talked ever since...? i said some things that may have made him mad, what do i do!? ~AMANDA~

-- Contributed by: Amanda

Hi Olivia, If you hang out together and he kisses and hugs you, I'd take that to mean that he likes you. The fact that he does it with other girls means that he doesn't view the two of you as exclusive. If you want a more exclusive relationship, you'll have to talk to him about it and let him know how you really feel.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

Hi, can you help? I like a boy that I used to go out with and I think he likes me, but I can't tell! He's always asking me for a hug and sometimes a kiss and we just have fun mucking about together. But he does the same to a few other girls, so does he really like me?

-- Contributed by: Olivia

Hi Anaid, Talking with guys isn't much different from talking to girls. Start with just saying,"hi." After you've gotten his attention, try asking him things about school, like homework assignments or getting his notes from class. By talking about the little things you can eventually work up to actual conversations about things that you both like and have in common. This may take days, or weeks, but eventually you'll have enough confidence to speak to the guys you like on a regular basis.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

I don't know how to talk to guys because I'm really shy. I don't know what to do.

-- Contributed by: anaid

Hi Kestra, It is normal for young adults to fantasize about dating celebrities. They appear to have everything, and who wouldn't want to have everything? However, it is important to realize that the odds of a person actually meeting and then dating a celebrity is astronomical. Celebrities usually date other celebrities- that is the nature of the business. So, hopefully you realize that unless you live in NYC or Hollywood you'll probably never even meet the celebrity you idolize.

Now, for the dating of boys you are in contact with. Dating a real person is a lot different than dreaming about a celebrity. A real person can be supportive, loving and a great friend. They are people that you see every day and can actually interact with. I don't think you'll be so quick to throw away a real relationship- you'll have a lot invested in it.

My advice is to get out there and meet some real guys and start dating or at least cultivate some meaningful relationships. It is nice to fantasize, but fantasies won't be there at the end of the day to talk to you, make you laugh and keep you company.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

I have a big problem with boys. I'm not sexually active or anthing, but I have a lot of dreams, mostly about celebs. I always think I'm in love, but the next day with another celeb. I'm afraid if I get a real boyfriend I might do the same thing.

-- Contributed by: kestra

Hi Lea, I'm guessing you haven't dated a lot since you are a Freshman, which would explain your reluctance to ask him straight up to go out. If your schedule will be changing again (I don't know how often they do), maybe luck will be on your side and you'll get the opportunity to talk more. In the mean time, don't you even see each other in the halls? You could always say "hi" and that would let him know you're still interested in him. Guys are just as shy as you are, and they're always worried if girls are interested in them or not too. A little encouragement may be all he needs to see that you are (still) interested in him. Good luck!

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

Thanks Charlotte, you're right I do need to do something with him alone, but I am sort of afraid. I'm a freshman (15) and hes 16 so there's not that much of a difference there but we don't have the same friends, at all. And I mean we talk, but it's nothing more than a couple days a week and lately, since we've changed schedules, were not talking that much. I still really like him and I'd love for this to go somewhere but what if I am taking his clues the wrong ways? I don't think he's interested, but I wish there was some way he would be...

-- Contributed by: Lea

Hi Lea, I don't know how old you are, but liking someone a year older isn't really that much of a problem. If he seems interested in you, and you can talk in school as friends, why not suggest doing something together next time you talk? Is there an event at school that you could "meet" at (not officially call it a date), so that you could spend a little time together? If you have common friends, perhaps you could do a group thing so you could hang together. If you are old enough to date, you could suggest going to eat something after school, go to a coffee house/bookstore on the weekend to meet and eat/talk. The movies is always a good idea, as is bowling or just meeting at your house to watch movies on the weekend. I would definitely suggest talking with him without a group of friends around- that is always awkward, no matter how well you know the other person. The bottom line though, he won't know you are interested unless you clue him in.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

Alright, so of course there's this guy. He is a grade older than me and I guess you could call us "school friends". We talk in class occasionally, but its not very in-depth. I really like him and have liked him for a long while, but I don't know how or if I should tell him this. I am at the point where I want to just either go somewhere with him or just drop it all together. Sometimes I catch him looking at me, but I am very insecure about him because he's older. I know I need to become better friends with him before I decide anything, but I can't figure out how. Do you have any tips on how to handle this situation?

-- Contributed by: Lea

Hi Mallory, Sounds like you already have a friend-boy relationship. He is nice to you, has given you a nickname and you seem to be talking frequently in school or on the bus. If you two are destined to become an item, it will happen naturally since you are already friends. If your parents will allow you to, you could always ask him over to watch movies or play video games on the weekend and see how it goes when you two are alone. Good luck!

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

Okay, there is this guy who just moved to my school. I am 14 and he is 16. He's 3 grades higher than me, but incredibly cute. He knows I like him, and within the past month he has started talking to me. He rides my bus, and sits in front of me. Anyways, he jokes around with me a lot. He has even given me a nickname. But at times he acts like I am not even there. He is wish-washy. I see him everyday at lunch, but he never says anything. Only one time he has talked to me in the library. I catch him starring at me a lot out of the corner of his eye. And sometimes when he talks to me he just stares. Do you think he is interested in a relationship? He is so cute and I smile every time I hear his name!

-- Contributed by: Mallory

Hi Brittany, I think you already know the answer to your question since you hinted at it. Any guy that you have to get by bubbling, bumping, grinding or anything else isn't worth having. That makes him a user. You already know that he should like/love you for who you are, not whether you can make him hot and bothered or not. Find a guy that likes you for who you are, not for what you can do for him.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

Hey I am Brittany and I am 13 years old. I have the BIGGEST CRUSH EVER on this guy named Cyle. He and I are sorta friends, we play around, punch eachother, talk sometimes. See, the thing is there is this HUGE party coming up for all the grade 8's and Cyel said if I could bubble him good enough, then he would give me a chance?

He says he thinks I am hot and funny, but I'm not sure the bubbling/grinding/Dancing part is right. Shouldn't he love me for that or for who I am. I don't know and I am pretty sure I DON'T CARE. I'm scared to tell him how I feel face -to-face. Everyone else told him I like him and he clearly already knows. I want to be able to tell him and hear him tell me back he loves me for me and me only. Not because I can dance or that im hot,,,,,, for me.

From : confused, love struck hunnie.... Brittany Quaresma:)

I need you guys help. If you have any advice or comments please tell me by commenting on my article or emailing me.

-- Contributed by: Brittany Quaresma

Okay, so I've liked this guy for a couple years and we've become really close. You see, at first I thought it was just lust because he is incredibly attractive but then once I decided to get to know him, I've grown to really really like him. I'm pretty much his best girl friend (that is, friend who is a girl). However, I don't know if he feels the same way about me. Unfortunately, we talk about everything; including each other's love lives but whenever he asks me about boys, I haven't ever brought up the fact that I like him. I either say that I'm not interested in anyone or I just chose a guy and say that I like him. I'm not sure if he knows that I like him but I have told my friends (we have the same friends) that I like him but they haven't told him. I tend to get jealous when he is interested in other girls or when those girls are interested in him because it brings me to question myself and ask, "why not me?" I honestly don't think that they would know half of what I know about him no matter how hard they try to get to know him (he is shy around people he isn't comfortable with). I know some of the girls that he has liked and I know that he isn't shallow but don't you ever have those times when you feel like you can't compare to those girls? Like, they are just so much prettier, smarter, nicer, etc. even though it seems like you and the other girl share similar traits? Anyways, he is graduating this year but planning on staying here for college (as do I) and I have one more year before I graduate but we will stay really close friends after high school. I'm not sure what I should do. I've hinted that I like him but he is pretty oblivious when it comes to situations like these. Just the other day we were talking and he jokingly said, "I don't know why anyone would like me..." and I replied, "What are you talking about? I like you..." but the next day everything seemed normal. I'm not sure if he actually got the hint or he just thought that I was joking. I've tried to stop liking him and find someone else but it hasn't worked just because you don't choose who you like nor can you force yourself to stop liking someone. I don't know how he feels about me but I doubt that he feels the same way about me as I do for him (but who knows?). I'm afraid that if I tell him or ask him about it then things will become awkward between the two of us and I'll have lost one of my best friends. Of course I want to tell him but I cannot bring myself to do such a thing and I also don't think that I would be able to face the outcome. Here's another situation to the story: There is this girl who goes to another school but she asked him to her winterball and he said yes but he told me that he isn't yet sure if he likes her. I'm afraid that the two will start dating after this dance and I don't know how I'll react. We haven't hung out with her but throughout the time that we've known each other, he hasn't had a girlfriend because his former moved away. Of course I envy this girl a lot but there's really nothing I can do about it, right? I'm not one of those girls who plan on sabotaging their relationship but I don't want him to date anyone else. I know that sounds horrible, but you get my drift, don't you? I'm perfectly fine when he is just "talking" to those girls but dating is a totally different situation. What do I do? I should probably just respect him and the girl but it just breaks my heart. I know that I shouldn't be feeling this strongly about a guy because I'm young and there are plenty of fish in the sea, but I'm just stuck.

-- Contributed by: anonymous

Hi Conner, see the Ask the Teen Team page for their answer to your question!

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

hi my name is conner i am 13 i have a crush on a hot girl called stephanie.e are friends and we have dated before.

i dont have the confidence to ask her out

if any one has any tips on what i should do please tell me

-- Contributed by: conner rabbett

Hi Anonymous, See the Teen Team's response to your question on the Teen Crushes page.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

This is a really long story, but I'll just make it short: There's a boy I like a lot; in fact, I've liked him for 4 years now. We don't live near each other or go to the same school anymore, so I just talk to him on AIM. On AIM, he keeps sending me mixed messages. First, he talks about this girl he has a crush on but then says he would kiss me if he could. I know he liked me in middle school, but I'm not sure if he still does. He's also told me that it was wrong to like two people at once. Does he like me, or not? I can't seem to ask him myself.

-- Contributed by: Anonymous

Hey I think you should go with ugene if you like everything about him but are not so sure about jamonty and you have split up with jamonty in the past and it oviousley isn't working with you and him so go with ugene to show jamonty that you are not someone who can just be thrown about and dropped and picked up again you need to show him that you are not desperate and can lead your own life! I would for deffo go with ugene! Good luck em x

-- Contributed by: Emily

Hi Tina, find the answer to your question on the Teen Crushes page!

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

Hey... I have an update. I just found out that my crush has a girlfriend already. However, he still keeps on flirting with me. He is too touchy that he would touch my arms for no reason. He will suddenly sing in front of me, and tries to make me laugh. We are in the same program, so I guess I will see more from him soon. Do you think he like me even if he already has a girlfriend? Thank you so much.

-- Contributed by: Tina

Hi Anonymous- Ask the Teen Team answered your question on our new page, Teen Crushes.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

My crush is actually one of my really close friends, and he isnt that amazingly popular but he has quite a few friends who are also girls that are slightly possesive of him. last year, on a french trip my best friend let my crush slip out to him, partly because she liked him too. He was cool about it though and he was a bit annoyed at my bff for telling him... we're still friends, even though we are kind of nervous around each other. He teases me alot, and makes me read his english stories and essays... and I still have a crush on him. I'm pretty sure somehow that he doesnt like me the way I do, but it's getting kind of difficult. what do I do?

-- Contributed by: anonymous

Hi Tina,

If he is still touchy with you, he probably really likes you. Touching people is a way to make sure that they are focusing entirely on you when you are talking- so obviously he really wants your attention. Cracking jokes is another way for guys to strike up conversations with girls. If you still like him, make sure you get his attention next time you talk by touching is arm or hand first and see what happens.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

Hey I don't know if my classmate likes me or not. He's been my classmate in several class already, but we just started to talk in the class wherein we are seat mates. I have this attitude of not talking to people I do not really know, but he was very friendly that it came to a point that I can already talk and even say hi to him outside our class. Whenever we talk, he gets too touchy like touching my arms for several times, and he often crack jokes. He would always find a way to talk to me, and I do not talk to him first all the time. Now, it seems that I really like him. But I do not want to rely on what I see because I might have missed something important out there. I mean I do not want to convince myself that he does like me, he might just be too flirty or friendly. thanks!

-- Contributed by: tina

Hey Aly J,

Does your guy friend know how you feel about him? If you haven't told him, maybe you should and then you would know whether he views you as a friend or a girlfriend. The fact that he seems to spend a lot of time with you sounds like he thinks you are pretty cool.

As for your friends, if they don't know you are crushing on the guy, you can't really blame them if they think he's available. The same is true with your girl friends- tell them how you feel. If they are really your friends, they'll back off.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

i have a crush on one of my older friends he's in 9th grade and i'm in 7th. he told me he liked me and then i told him so it was better for him to know than for him never to find out<3

-- Contributed by: amber

okay there is this guy that i am in puppy love with and have ben for like two years!!! but everytime we go out everyone just cant believe it and they get all teasy with me. i hate it so much. we dtill have alot of feeling for eachother...ALOT... and we can't help but spend as much time as we can together...even though we won't admit it to eachothter. but there always has to be a problem right??? well the problem here is half the girls here at school. they all want to be with him and they never understand that he's mine. im scared that he might wnat to be with them and not me. how can i hold on to him without letting go? the worst part id that some of the girls are my so-called friends. help please??????

-- Contributed by: aly j

I have a crush on my best freind Tim, and he doesn't feel the same way... I was crushed... SO SAD! I think i like him more than a crush though. My other friends think its love.

-- Contributed by: Kari

Hi Andy,

One way people get up the courage to talk to other people in school is to strike up a conversation about school subjects. It is much easier than getting up the courage to say, "hey, wanna go out with me?" There's no rejection involved in asking about school subjects and it gives both parties the opportunity to talk about something they have in common-no strings attached.

It sounds like the other person is friendly enough if they are saying "hi" and "bye" on a regular basis. If they also want to talk about school subjects, it is possible they would like to be friends with you too, and get to know you better. Let things develop naturally and don't rush things!

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

So there's this guy, I really like. I have 1 class with him and lunch. We talk little bit, he's really nice. When he sees me at my locker, he says hi or bye. Would that be a sign? We were in lunch and I didn't see him, and he randomly asked about what would be subject for Spanish and I didn't know. Would that be a sign. I mean I'm not the teacher, why would he ask me that? Should I flirt or would it develop itself. Please help. There's this girl who also wants to be with him but she makes it obvious.

-- Contributed by: andy

Hi Anonymous,

Ouch! You aren't alone; plenty of people have revealed a crush on a close friend and then were disappointed. However, take heart. Many people who were really good friends to begin with get over this hurdle, though it may take a while for the shock to wear off. The key to any solid relationship is talking things out. Give it a few days and then find time to either talk or send a note explaining that you really value your friendship and still want to remain friends.

Unfortunately you will have to deal with the fact the other person doesn't want to date you, but luckily, your friend was honest with you and didn't try to lead you on....and honesty is very important. Hang in there- usually this situation blows over and you'll be able to resume a friendship.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

Hi Naideane,

Go with your gut instinct when it comes to dating. If you think someone is only going to use you and leave you, why date them? Is Jamontay that way? Is this why you broke up? Choose someone that cares for you and wants to do the right thing by you. Life is too short to get used by someone and then to deal with all of the heart ache that is bound to follow. Perhaps you should give your new crush Eugene a chance if he seems considerate and respectful of you.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

I've liked this guy since last year. When I told my friends I like him, they wanted me to write him an anonymous letter to tell him I like him. I did, and he found out somehow found out. He wrote me a response and he said that I am a very nice friend but he doesn't really like me in that way. I've been depressed ever since. Ever since, I don't know what to say to him. Because we were good friends before I wrote the note, and it's kind of weird between us now. It's only been three days since he found out, but, I don't know what to do. What should I do? And, I still like him as more than a friend. -Anonymous

-- Contributed by: Anonymous

i have a crush on this boy name eugene but i think i still like my ex-boyfriend jamontay which one will work out i love everything about eugene but i dont really know him and jamontay he seems like he just wants to get in and get out but i dont really know could you help me out with my problem

-- Contributed by: naideane
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