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Hi Mya,

It sounds like she may have wanted the attention of both boys and when she lost your boyfriend's attention, she got mad. Depending on how close you are to your play sister, you should talk to her about how she is acting/feeling. Just ask her that you've been feeling some tension between the two of you and you hope that dating this boy won't come between you two, especially since she said she didn't like him. Good luck...

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

I just start going with this boy, but there's a problem....My play sister used to like him but they never actually went together. The other thing is that, they stop talking because my play sister was trying to get with his bestfriend, and she said she liked his bestfriend and didnt have no feelings for the other boy. but now that i go with him i have this feeling that she is mad and jealous.....what should i do???

-- Contributed by: Mya

Hi Sharni,

Getting over a relationship is so difficult even if you know you two weren't good together. The best remedy for a broken heart is time. With some time, your feelings for him should fade. Good luck!

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

i went out with this guy but then we split up, but i still like him and im trying really, really hard not to like him! I tried to wipe him but it didnt work! How can i get over him? HELP!

-- Contributed by: sharni

Hello,

He could like you or just shy. If you have a chance, start talking to him and get to know him. That can usually help you find out more about his feelings.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

HI IM ITALY IM IN MIDDLE SCHOOL WELL THERE A GUY IDK IF HE LIKES ME OR NOT BUT EVERY TIME I GO TO HIS HOUSE WITH MY FAMILY HE STARES AT ME AND THEN IF I START STARING AT HIM HE TURNS AROUND DO U WHY HE DOES THAT

-- Contributed by: hello

uhmm, hi, i'm sam, welli raced when i was little and i liked this kid for 5 years now, we dated off and on, but he dumped me, and i still think of him, and i was talking to him, and he said that he liked me alot! and still does, but won't ask me out, and it is really confusing because i mean he likes me and i like him. so whats wrong???? and he is sweet, and i really like him..

-- Contributed by: samantha.

Hi im Sophie and im 16, Ive been with my Bf 10 months and he is 19.My mum and Dad kinda went crazy when they found out but with time they have kinda got used to it.My Mum is ill and has recently been diagnosed with terminal cancer and since that we have become closer than ever before.My Mum always ask's me if i have done anything with my bf yet,in which i reply the truth no.She then says to me let it stay that way your too young.But im 16,ive never felt anything for any other bloke like i feel for my bf now.Both me and My boyfriend have sat and talked about having sex and as we both are virgins we feel we are ready.I am i know i am and i would but everytime we get close to it my Mums voice comes into my head and with her being so ill i dont want to break her trust or for her to feel dissappointed in me.I dont want to do what she tells me not to and ignor me. Does that seem silly ? What should i do ignor my mum ? plz some1 help me Sophie

-- Contributed by: Sophie

Hi Amanda, It is entirely possible that your boyfriend broke your hymen, but I'm not a doctor and I can't see what you are talking about. I want to urge you to be very careful if you are beginning sexual relationships. ALWAYS make the guy wear a condom, and you should be using some form of birth control as well. You can get pregnant even with casual contact or if full penetration doesn't take place. Protect yourself from an unwanted pregnancy and STDs!

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

Hello I Feel So Ashamed; I'm guessing you have a religious upbringing or you wouldn't feel so ashamed about your feelings. Wanting a close sexual relationship is normal, especially for a teenager. You are feeling conflicted about your feelings- on the one hand you want to have sex and that is a "bad thing" because you feel you shouldn't have sex before you are married. On the other hand, you're a normal teenager and probably curious. What I can tell you is that it is best to wait until you are in love with someone, and I mean really and truly in love, both of you. Rushing into sex just for the sake of having sex will leave you feeling empty and used! Be patient- it is definitely worth waiting for with the right person.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

The first time my guy and I tried to have sex, he tried to put the penis inside, but it didn't go in and I realized that we were doing something wrong. I stopped that very moment. Later the place below my vagina, bled a little for the whole day. I don't know if it was my hymen that got ruptured. Can you please help me?

-- Contributed by: amanda

Ok, I know this is pretty bad but I'm 14 and i REALLY want to have sex; not with anyone in particular. I don't want to get anything or get pregnant and I don't want to have sex until I'm married. What do I do?

-- Contributed by: i feel so ashamed

Hi Winnie, I have to wonder, if the relationship will be ending soon, why do you want an intimate relationship right before it ends? It will only make a break up that much harder. Why not enjoy the relationship the way it is for now- sounds like the guy is trying to be a gentleman. As for your friend, everyone's relationships progress in their own sweet time. Don't rush things or you may risk ruining them.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 17. We've been together for a little over 3 months now. After this year, he's graduating and our relationship will probably end :( I'm not saying I want to have sex, but I want our relationship to go to 2nd base, or even 3rd. We've kissed already though. Even my best friend told me she and her boyfriend got to 2nd base by the time they were together for 2 months. I think he's probably just thinking of not pushing me on anything, but I'm not sure. What's he really thinking, and what should I do?

-- Contributed by: Winnie

Hi Malaysia, The two of you are probably doing it right, but you need to tell him if you aren't having the big o when you are together. Guys aren't mind readers; they don't always know what makes you happy, so you need to tell them. If you are in a loving, caring relationship, you shouldn't be embarrassed to voice your needs.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

Hi, I'm Malaysia. I'm 17 and yes, to be honest, I have had sexual intercourse before. I should have waited a little longer, but hey it's all done and over with now, lol. Do all females suppose to ..., because I never have with my 1st. I don't know is it because he's not doing it right or what, because my friends tell me they have, but I keep mine quiet.

-- Contributed by: malaysia

Hi Norma, Yes you can get pregnant if your boyfriend doesn't wear a condom. Always make your boyfriend wear a condom. It is the only way to make sure no sperm has a chance to fertilize one of your eggs. Remember- sperm are VERY mobile; even a little spilled outside of your vagina can make their way in.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

Can you get pregnant if my boyfriend sticks his penis inside my vagina until he feels my hymen if he wears a condom.....and I have one more question can I also get pregnant if my boyfriend rubs the tip of his penis around my vagina?

-- Contributed by: norma

Um, hi. I'm Eliza and I'm 16.There's this guy I've been friends with for a year and half and he asked me out. Thing is, the moment he asked me, all I said was I don't know. Because I really don't know. He's a senior and I'm a junior who has never had a boyfriend. He's a really nice and funny guy but I'm really not sure what to do. I've never been in this situation before.

-- Contributed by: Eliza

Hi Norma, Even if sperm gets on you and ends up in the vaginal area it can travel inside of you and get you pregnant. As for sex in the back, I'm guessing you mean anal sex (not vaginal). If this is what you mean, no, you can't get pregnant that way. Once again though, if sperm gets on you around the vaginal area before, after or during anal sex, you could still get pregnant. Be smart and make him wear a condom! Not only will it protect you from an unwanted pregnancy, it will also protect you from STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases).

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

can u get pregnet if u have sex threw the back instead of the front,my boyfriend says u cant but what about if he starts to sperm in side of me when we are having sex threw the back will i still get pregnet and is there a name for having sex threw the back

-- Contributed by: norma

I have known this one girl since Kindergarten. We have been great friends ever since. I just recently told her how I truly felt. It was a big risk and I knew it but I risked it. I gave her awhile to think things through. When we talked about it she told me that she had never thought about me in that way and that she had always just thought of me as a great friend...like someone to go to. I understand that I should keep things normal and just pretend like nothing happened. I know that I should continue our friendship...but that still doesn't help the fact that every time I see her I feel depressed. I know that right now I just have to be patient and see how things play out...but is there anything else I can do? Is it not a good idea to still hint that I like her? Because I did tell her that I would clear it off the table.

-- Contributed by: Ben

Hi Lisa,

You can get pregnant anytime, even if you are on your period (though that is less common). Once your period is over you can wait and take a pregnancy test with an over-the-counter test. Even if it turns out that you aren't pregnant, never have unprotected sex!

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

i don't know yet if i'm pregnant bt my boyfriend and i had sex witthout a condom while i was on my period

-- Contributed by: lisa

Hi Michelle,

Anal sex is anything having to do with the anal area during sex, oral or otherwise. Oral sex is using your mouth to perform a sex act on the genitals.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

What is the different between Anal & oral sex?

-- Contributed by: Michelle

shoud i have sex?

-- Contributed by: keyshia

I have always had a hard time finding guys, they never seem interested in me..When I get down I feel like the reason why they don't like me is because I'm too ugly, too fat, too stupid, like I'm never good enough and that's why its my fault that guys don't like me. I mean I'm only 15 but still it really hurts to not feel wanted while all of my friends are in loving caring relationships. What can I do help with finding someone?

-- Contributed by: Ashleigh
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