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It sounds like he does care about you and is interested in you since he did text you when you returned the first time. Whether he will still be interested in you when he gets back from Europe is difficult to say. Chances are, he will be and you have nothing to worry about. So just hang tight and you will know soon enough!

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

So there's this guy that I met at the beach oe time with my family. Anyways when we had to leave, he wanted my number. We've kept in touch for 3 months, in a way. There was a missions trip he had to go on for 8 weeks where he couldnt accept any texts. During that time, I just waited. Wondering if he would even send a text when he got back. He did. And it made me notice that he cares about me.Now he's gone to Europe for 3 weeks, and he gets no service over there unless he wants to pay alot of money. He cared enough to text the first time, but will he care at all when he gets back and school starts?

-- Contributed by: Will He Care when he's back?

Wondering and waiting,

You didn't mention how big the age difference is between the both of you so I can't comment on that. However, you did say that you are still talking to him and that is a good thing. Just continue talking with him and getting to know him. As your friendship grows, you'll be able to tell if he has feelings for you and then you can either wait for him to ask you out or ask him out.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Maddison,

If you are talking to him online, on the phone or texting, you may want to see if he wants to get together. If you aren't old enough to drive, ask your parents about getting a ride. You can see a movie or some other activity and meet each other there.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Kenz,

If you've been staying in contact with him, he may have some clue that you are interested. He may actually like you too and wonder whether you like him in the same way. If you will be seeing him soon, reconnect with him by hanging out and doing something fun.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Well theres this guy I like. We met at a beach trip that both of our families went on. From then, I got his number and have been texting him for 3 months. I havent been able to see him since the beach trip and miss him terribly. Does he know I like him? Does he know I like him? please help

-- Contributed by: Kenz

I love this guy and I really wanna spend some time with him. But we live about 45 min. away from each other. I have no idea if he likes me. Any Advice?

-- Contributed by: Maddison

I absolutly like this sophmore that likes me back. Well, last time I saw him, he liked me. He goes to a differet school, and Im and 8th grader. We kinda just text back and forth. but hes really sweet. Im just wondering if he has any feelings for me. We dont spend alot of time together because of our age difference, and I dont think going out will be accepted by anyone because of our age too. Does he have feelings for me? and doyou think we could get together?

-- Contributed by: Wondering and Waiting

Hi Kylie,

Try to hang out with him more and form a friendship. He might start to have feelings for you if he realizes how fun you are to be around you.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Hello,

i like 2 guys in my class, the 1st one is really cute & funny, but sorta shy & i really dont know him.. The 2nd guy is cute & very obnoxious.. i know he doesnt like me but i really would like to see if we could be compatible i mean.. But he teases me alot, but we also text alot idk wat to do!

-- Contributed by: Kylie

Hi Chelsea - Are you absolutely sure that he liked you before? He may have always had the idea of getting you involved in his quest of getting to your best friend. Unfortunately, now that he likes your best friend, there's not much you can do. However, it'd be a good idea to duck out of this situation as soon as you can if you do ever want to date him. Just be patient and a good friend, if things don't work out with this other girl, he may just turn his interest your way. You'll have to wait though... Good luck!

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Hey.I'm a 14 year old girl and i have liked this guy (my age) for about 3 months now.The problem is he likes one of my best friends ,but she doesnt like him.I know that he liked me because before he got a crush on my friend we were talking practically every day and flirting,alot.However,now whenever we talk it's always about "her" and i have to pretend like i dont even like him.Also,i'm helping him with "her" but i'm afraid he's going to get his heart broken and hate me forever.How,or should, can i get him back??

-- Contributed by: Chelsea

Madison,

It's so difficult to hear that someone we like doesn't feel the same way about us. The only thing you can do in this situation and is pick up the pieces and move on. You can't make some like/love you, all you can do is find someone who likes you as much as you like him. Good luck to you!

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

hey! my name is lauren and i'm 14. so there is this guy that i started to be friends with like middle of 8th grade. we were friends until this summer and then we when got back to school things were a little wierd. after the first 2 weeks of school we started talking again (just friends.) we eventually started talking every night and hung out on the weekends. i will admit that i did like him but i was to shy to know his opinion. all of my friends said that we were "talking". (which means that we are more than friends but not dating YET). i didnt really know really what the truth was. eventually i told him that i liked him and he turned me down. we stopped talking for about 3 weeks and then started talking again. we kept talking everynight for about 7 weeks. this past week we stopped talking and i dont know why. i am so scared to ask why but i know that i still have feelings for him. i dont know what to do! please give me some adive! thanks -madison

-- Contributed by: madison

Dee,

Sounds like he's a player. Be careful with big flirts like him, as you have experienced, he will play with your heart and break it. Try to move on and find someone better!

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

I like one of my best friends. He really likes me, or so he said. He really flirted with me, to have me find out hes dating someone. It really upset me, but I still like him.

-- Contributed by: Dee

so for the last 3 years ive liked this guy and we are really good friends. On the last day of school last year i told him that i loved him... we are starting high school this year and we are going to different schools. i have his number and i want to go on a date with him but most of all i want to keep in touch. how do i ask him out in a suttle way without scaring him off and losing my friendship with him?

-- Contributed by: Gabbie

Hi Madison, You can either wait until he asks you out or you can be proactive and ask him out. There's no other way to find out if he is into you or not.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

I like this guy a lot. He's really nice and cute and funny, but he's really popular and is friends with a lot of girls. My best friend and I hang out with him after school sometimes and she says that he flirts with me and acts differently around me than when he's around other girls (which I guess I'm too oblivious to notice.) I'm not sure if he likes me or not. I mean he teases me a lot and acts weird and stuff, but he's weird anyway. I'm not sure if I should tell him or not because I'm afraid he'll just avoid me and we won't be friends anymore. What should I do?

-- Contributed by: --madison

Ta, What is wrong with calling this boy? Do your parents let you call friends? If so, why not just call him? He wouldn't have given you his number if he didn't want you to call!

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

I like this boy and he likes me. We're kind of going out and I'm normally the master at relationships, but there's something about. Today we gave each other gifts and he gave me his phone number. I would've asked my mom, but I discovered that everything I tell her she tells my step dad. I don't know what to do- call him or what?

-- Contributed by: ta

Philophobia girl - The difference in age is really nothing to worry about. There is one year difference (or less) between you? If you really like him, talk to him! If he's smiling at you, he must like you too. If you know where he is going to be, get there a little early (or stay a little late) and strike up a conversation - perhaps about books? Good luck!

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

There's this guy that I really like. He is in my Spanish class and he's a library assistant during 3rd when I have that block free. He is super nice, has a great smile, great personality and I love his style and his laugh. Whenever I think about him, I always end up smiling and my friends know right away because I won't quit and I'll start blushing!(REALLY REALLY bad blushing!) The problem is, he's a sophomore while I'm a freshman. Although,when we started talking more, he told me that at first he had thought I was a sophomore too. We talk a lot and in the library when he comes in, he'll always smile(and that smile is perfect!)and wave or something if he sees me there. But I'm not sure if he just likes me as a friend and is just being nice or if he likes me too. Please respond because I am really confused.

-- Contributed by: philophobia girl

Hi Confused, I would let him make the first move and ask you out. He already turned you down once, so the ball should be in his court.

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

I like this guy. He's my best friends little brother, but he's my age, so we are friends too. She's Ok with it, in fact, she WANTS us to go for it. I asked him out a few weeks ago, but he said no. We were fine after it. It hasn't been brought up since. But then, about a week ago, my friend told me he had just asked her out, and was it ok if she said yes. I said go for it, I didn't want to hurt her. So they went out. But then he found out I still liked him. He was really sweet about it, saying that he loved me as a friend and stuff. While they were together, he told me their relationship wasn't going too well, which really confused me. They broke up, God only knows why. And now my friends say he's flirting with me, and I think so too, but I don't want to get my hopes up again. How can I tell if he likes me or not ? And what do I do ?

-- Contributed by: Confused

Hi Kate, How about just saying "Hi?" One way to let a guy know you like him is to strike up a conversation with him. Most guys are shy too, so maybe he is just waiting for a cue from you. Give it a shot- what have you got to lose?

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

I really like this guy and I don't know whether he likes me. We seem to meet eyes quite a lot and last week we had this moment where we just stared at each other for like 10 seconds and then he smiled at me. I really want to go out with him. How should I try to hint that I like him, but stay subtle?

-- Contributed by: kate

Hi Ashley, Too bad your friends are shallow and are basing potential relationships on a person's looks. It is more important what you think since you are the one interested in the guys. You'll be dating them (hopefully), not your friends. Normally if you're too shy to find out if a guy likes you, an an "ambassador" (a friend), would be the person to find out for you. It sounds like your friends aren't being very supportive though. So, the ball really is in your court now. You'll have to get the courage to ask these guys out, or continue to worship them from afar. You could try just saying "hi" and trying to strike up a conversation in a casual way. You could do this in the hallway between classes or in class you have together before the teacher begins teaching. All relationships have to start somewhere! If the guys are standoffish and don't want to talk, move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea!

-- Contributed by: Charlotte Gerber

Well, I like these guys from my school, but I don't know if they like me back. I am too shy to ask them myself. My friends think they are ugly. How can I find out if they like me back?

-- Contributed by: ashley
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